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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Its Not Easy


I have decided to once again take up blogging about my walk with the Lord and share with you all anything that I might be able to in order to better equip you and prepare you for your journey with our Lord Jesus Christ.

I have had the wonderful privilege of being blessed with a supportive and loving Church family. I have been entrusted with the honor of guiding the student youth spiritually in their walks with Christ, and let me tell you how much of an easy job this is.

I mean to start off with, I find it kind of ironic and humorous that my God who I have vowed to faithfully serve, would call me to minister to high school students. I mean, I did spend 14 years in the military, served 2 combat tours, and have dealt with some really stressful situations in my life, but nothing could have prepared me for the in’s and outs of youth ministry.

Like I had mentioned before, it’s a pretty easy gig. I mean all I really have to do is sit there and laugh at their jokes, let them do what they want to do all the time, buy them some food and drinks, play music, let them play games, and that is it right. I know that there are some people out there that might actually believe that last sentence. I mean at one point and time even I thought that this was truth, but almost a year later working with my youth, I can definitely tell you how not true that perception is.

I have realized that I have a group of wonderful young Christians who are just trying to figure out where they belong in this world. On top of that they have made a decision to follow Christ and live for Him. I just shudder to think what that must be like. Look at it, as adults we struggle daily with fleshly desires and trying to walk in Christ, do we ever stop to take a look at what our youth might be going through.

If you talk to youth nowadays anywhere from the 5th grade up you will realize that they are dealing with things we never as adults thought they would be dealing with. Sex, drugs, profanity, pornography, violence, peer-pressure, homosexuality, and so much more. Are we as adults stepping into their lives and addressing these issues with our students before they decide to address them on their own.

Don’t get me wrong, it will not be something easy to address and fix. Your student will most likely be upset with you for talking about something that makes them uncomfortable, or they might even become a little rebellious. The fact is that we cannot afford to not address these things with our students and children. If we avoid the tough subjects because we don’t want to hurt their feelings or alienate them from us, we will lose them and never be able to reel them back in.

So what I am saying as a youth pastor/director is that even though there are subjects on a daily basis that I might not necessarily want to address, I have to address for the safety of the students that God has entrusted to me. I will continue to tackle the hard issues with love and kindness and show them that everything that is done for them come from God and His love for them.

            “Let the little children come to Me. Don’t stop them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.”(Mark 10:14)

Our children are our future and as such should be thought of no less important than anyone else. Pay attention and show them that you love them, as I have learned recently it is not enough to sometimes think that they know how you feel, but sometimes you have to actually tell them how much you love and appreciate them.
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